Tashi, this may not be the most helpful thing to hear right now, but it's the best I can do at the moment-you are an inspiration to me. When I came across this blog (thanks to regretsy) I immediately had such an appreciation for what I have, because it can so easily be taken away, and I don't know if I would have the courage to bear it as gracefully as you have. More than anything, I wish I could give you more good time with the man you love. You and Wash are wonderful people who deserved so much better than this.
*F.I.E.R.C.E.* be your heart-hold now, Tashi, on the memory of ............ every-single-happy-*M.I.N.U.T.E.* ............ that you & Wash have had together!!
You HAVE loved and cared for - ARE loving and caring for - Wash as much as ANYONE on Earth can possibly do; and you'll (very wisely!!) have no regrets ............ *N.*O.* REGRETS ............ that you could've/should've/might've "done more" ............ because you've done absolutely EVERYTHING than any good wife, *a.n.y.w.h.e.r.e.*, would've been able TO do, you know.
Lean on Wash's Hospice nurses ............ lean on your friends there ............ lean on all of your Readers here, too ............ i.e., just lean on EVERYBODY now, Tashi!!
Prayers and {{{*hugs}}} from me and Jack to you & Wash -
I'm a 26 year old former Caregiver. This is my voice to talk about my life- mostly about learning to live now. My husband was diagnosed in November 2009 with Glioblastoma Multiforme- terminal brain cancer. He was only 25 and I had literally just turned 23. He fought hard for almost 3 years before he passed away September 2012, just a month after turning 28.
This was my blog about our life.
This is still my space to find Hope.
This is now my public battle to show what life is like as a 25 year old Widow.
I hope your day was better than your night. Keep hold of the good memories.
ReplyDeleteTashi, this may not be the most helpful thing to hear right now, but it's the best I can do at the moment-you are an inspiration to me. When I came across this blog (thanks to regretsy) I immediately had such an appreciation for what I have, because it can so easily be taken away, and I don't know if I would have the courage to bear it as gracefully as you have. More than anything, I wish I could give you more good time with the man you love. You and Wash are wonderful people who deserved so much better than this.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry.
*F.I.E.R.C.E.* be your heart-hold now, Tashi, on the memory of ............ every-single-happy-*M.I.N.U.T.E.* ............ that you & Wash have had together!!
ReplyDeleteYou HAVE loved and cared for - ARE loving and caring for - Wash as much as ANYONE on Earth can possibly do; and you'll (very wisely!!) have no regrets ............ *N.*O.* REGRETS ............ that you could've/should've/might've "done more" ............ because you've done absolutely EVERYTHING than any good wife, *a.n.y.w.h.e.r.e.*, would've been able TO do, you know.
Lean on Wash's Hospice nurses ............ lean on your friends there ............ lean on all of your Readers here, too ............ i.e., just lean on EVERYBODY now, Tashi!!
Prayers and {{{*hugs}}} from me and Jack to you & Wash -