I have no advice or words, I know you're dealing with the unimaginable.
But if you want cheer and total escapism, maybe check out the first season of Downton Abbey. It's on Netflix instant and Amazon Prime. It's actually rather fantastic. Maybe have some wine too.
Tashi, maybe the same friends who were at your place for your recent Birthday/Halloween Party now could also, (i.e., since they live in the general area there), help you with the "Some Cheer" part, too.
If ONLY our good thoughts/wishes/prayers could always change bad (medical) news *INTO* good (medical) news!! Sometimes, though, being/feeling genuinely "supported," O.N.E.-O.N.-O.N.E., can really make all the difference in the world; whereas the lack of support, as you know, can often simply be ............ devastating. (Don't ask me how I also know this, too!)
So, maybe a discrete **WANTED: SOME CHEER!!** notification (somehow) TO your & Wash's very closest friends ............ or maybe your dear Hostess Mum could MORPH one of her "Taco Tuesdays" INTO a "Taco Saturday Night" over at your place, (with your friends bringing the side dishes/desserts) ............ or maybe you & Wash could have a "Friday Night At The (Rented) Movies" with just a couple of your friends at your place, popping popcorn and having Cokes, with everyone's WINDING DOWN from the week ............ would be among some options to consider.
Anyway, I understand there very well may be legitimate feasibility problems with these few ideas of mine, (Above); but perhaps these ideas could bring you & Wash some needed *cheer* ............ while still also keeping both you & Wash SAFE and SECURE, too, you know.
I'm a 26 year old former Caregiver. This is my voice to talk about my life- mostly about learning to live now. My husband was diagnosed in November 2009 with Glioblastoma Multiforme- terminal brain cancer. He was only 25 and I had literally just turned 23. He fought hard for almost 3 years before he passed away September 2012, just a month after turning 28.
This was my blog about our life.
This is still my space to find Hope.
This is now my public battle to show what life is like as a 25 year old Widow.
I have no advice or words, I know you're dealing with the unimaginable.
ReplyDeleteBut if you want cheer and total escapism, maybe check out the first season of Downton Abbey. It's on Netflix instant and Amazon Prime. It's actually rather fantastic. Maybe have some wine too.
I hope you're ok.
Tashi, maybe the same friends who were at your place for your recent Birthday/Halloween Party now could also, (i.e., since they live in the general area there), help you with the "Some Cheer" part, too.
ReplyDeleteIf ONLY our good thoughts/wishes/prayers could always change bad (medical) news *INTO* good (medical) news!! Sometimes, though, being/feeling genuinely "supported," O.N.E.-O.N.-O.N.E., can really make all the difference in the world; whereas the lack of support, as you know, can often simply be ............ devastating. (Don't ask me how I also know this, too!)
So, maybe a discrete **WANTED: SOME CHEER!!** notification (somehow) TO your & Wash's very closest friends ............ or maybe your dear Hostess Mum could MORPH one of her "Taco Tuesdays" INTO a "Taco Saturday Night" over at your place, (with your friends bringing the side dishes/desserts) ............ or maybe you & Wash could have a "Friday Night At The (Rented) Movies" with just a couple of your friends at your place, popping popcorn and having Cokes, with everyone's WINDING DOWN from the week ............ would be among some options to consider.
Anyway, I understand there very well may be legitimate feasibility problems with these few ideas of mine, (Above); but perhaps these ideas could bring you & Wash some needed *cheer* ............ while still also keeping both you & Wash SAFE and SECURE, too, you know.
My heart goes out to you.. you've got to hold on, hold on, hold on for one more day...
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