Yesterday my husband's family had a memorial service in his name.
I did not attend.
Technically yes, I was invited; when my mail/invitation came Saturday AFTER the service in a different State was over.
I am Wash's next of kin, and his executor. I am his widow.
I heard him every day for 3 years describe in great detail his ideal Memorial Service.
I am working hard to make that happen for him on December 8, 2012, again, in the Winter, as he requested before his death.
I am truly sorry to those who may have been deceived by others, but he did want and had Willed me to take control of the details.
The love of my life, my soulmate, my husband died less than 6 weeks ago.
Please keep it civil. I will be moderating comments on this post.
Wash had asked me not to write about his parents' or his issues with them until after his death.