tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5062777672434332413.post700765572147862042..comments2024-03-04T02:43:55.369-08:00Comments on Learning to Hope: For the longest timescotvixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03934172691552719646noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5062777672434332413.post-84250373617321744922011-07-11T09:41:18.064-07:002011-07-11T09:41:18.064-07:00So sad. For you, and for them. If they ever think ...So sad. For you, and for them. If they ever think about it there must be a lot of regret. The kind of regret that sticks with you. With my good friend who has terminal colon cancer, the young mother who gets chemo every three weeks to extend her live (no cure available)- at the beginning, in the crisis era, it's hard to jump on board with that, things are changing and emotions are high and their family, as a family unit, had to come to some kind of.. place.. and of course they were super busy, trying to do all these appointments in the midst of parenting small and medium sized children and on and on.. and then I realized I was not being a good friend. And it was a little awkward at first but I just started calling more often, making dates occasionally, and sometime just dropping by her house unannounced. Now, now we are the 3 musketeers (plus my husband). I am so glad I made the effort to get past the awkward time. I still feel somewhat.. I don't know, protective? I've got some medical things freaking my shit right now but I don't want to talk to her about it.. she has cancer.. is dying.. my little freakout is nothing.. I'm sure.. I hope..<br /><br />Anyway. didn't meant to write all that but I guess I'll leave it.<br /><br />I'm glad you're feeling better, I read about the hospital trip, scary stuff, not breathing is just very scary, I know! So, good you're on the mend. Hugs.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01946941901164289620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5062777672434332413.post-34744631857508872912011-07-11T09:11:37.118-07:002011-07-11T09:11:37.118-07:00I'm sorry that you feel these people left you....I'm sorry that you feel these people left you.... It must be frustrating. I have one person that never spoke to me after my diagnosis.... But a lot of others that have come out of no where. Hang in there. I slept poorly last night too. Frustrating...Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04257881347202583114noreply@blogger.com