tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5062777672434332413.post2413575459758511058..comments2024-03-04T02:43:55.369-08:00Comments on Learning to Hope: More Fuckeryscotvixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03934172691552719646noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5062777672434332413.post-43478262388062199862012-09-14T19:17:58.221-07:002012-09-14T19:17:58.221-07:00I just found your blog thru regretsy. I am very so...I just found your blog thru regretsy. I am very sorry for your sense of helpless right now. Please do not give up hope on ever having children. If it is something that you want, you will find a way. Maybe not in the way that you hoped it to happen, maybe not in the way that your friends have children... but you will find a way. And maybe your child will not look like Wash, but I am sure that you will raise them a Dr. Who fan, and you will see a little bit of Wash in them every day. I know you feel like so many things are hopeless right now, but there is always hope!Lindseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10581989151254107481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5062777672434332413.post-17099393322907485182012-09-12T12:10:30.551-07:002012-09-12T12:10:30.551-07:00I am literally in tears. I had no idea who you wer...I am literally in tears. I had no idea who you were three minutes ago, but now I just want to hold you. I cannot say it's going to be okay, because I don't know that, but I do know that your husband wants you to be loved, successful, and at peace. But please feel lucky that you had him for the time you did. Please feel lucky that you got to know him, and marry him, and know an unending love for another person. My heart is with you. I am so sorry for your loss. The universe will never give you anything you can't handle. <3 Scarlethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01383579846259677109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5062777672434332413.post-24096430778407294292012-09-10T20:01:21.412-07:002012-09-10T20:01:21.412-07:00You can view donation information on their website...You can view donation information on their website: http://savewash.com/ <3naturisticahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02515898546407097286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5062777672434332413.post-34125371361801767152012-09-08T18:13:54.970-07:002012-09-08T18:13:54.970-07:00I know this girl from my hometown whose husband pa...I know this girl from my hometown whose husband passed from cancer. Her blog is REALLY religious (laughably religious) but maybe you will find some comfort in seeing how she has progressed since losing her husband. Last I checked she was starting to date again. What I'm trying to say is, I think you WILL have your life back one day, as sad as it is to think that will be at the expense of Wash's. And Wash would want you to have that life more than anything.<br /><br />Anyway, here's the blog she wrote before her husband died:<br />http://walkingthevalley.blogspot.com/<br /> and here's the one she keeps after:<br />http://www.getbusyliving.org/<br /><br />If you can get past the jesus insanity (and honestly, I think some of it is a really unhealthy attitude for her) maybe you can identify with/get some idea of what your life might be like in the future.BigRedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09759749577650048187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5062777672434332413.post-20481525903098953612012-09-07T07:09:17.429-07:002012-09-07T07:09:17.429-07:00I would like to make a monetary donation to you an...I would like to make a monetary donation to you and wash. How do I do so? Sharkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00620294428799593180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5062777672434332413.post-22774102008134185752012-09-07T06:06:36.833-07:002012-09-07T06:06:36.833-07:00Words fail me at the raw pain of your post. To kno...Words fail me at the raw pain of your post. To know that kind of pain is my greatest fear. And yet you get up every day. This is a mountainous task that shouldn't go ignored. You do go on, you do fight for yourself and your beloved. Your strength takes my breath away. <br /><br />lotstolovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05259983422117064216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5062777672434332413.post-35179566706886338902012-09-06T23:55:34.673-07:002012-09-06T23:55:34.673-07:00Tashi, this quotation, "In the night of death...Tashi, this quotation, "In the night of death, hope sees a *STAR*..." (~~Robert Ingersoll)............ reminds me of what you wrote, Above, about your dear maternal grandmother, i.e., your "Grandy": "Late at night, when the clock ticks past 4am, I feel 'her' and I feel safe and comforted enough to sleep." <br /><br />I, too, just SO loved my maternal grandmother~~(i.e., my "Grandma" S., who died on September 12th, 38 years ago)~~because when I was a child growing up, my dear Grandma S. was the only person I can remember who e.v.e.r. hugged, embraced, or complimented me; so I can fully understand the *great comfort* you feel when you reminisce about the times you spent alone with your Grandy at her house. <br /><br />Just as my Grandma S. is still "with me" late at night............ comforting me, (i.e., even all of these years LATER!!)............ about needs which were never met or filled; and which, post-facto, can realistically never be met or filled, only integrated into real Life, as I've been fortunate enough (to be able) to do............ your Grandy again can, as she did in the past, help you "to get through" NOW and~~(trust me on this, Tashi)~~your Grandy can also help you "to get through" in the FUTURE, too............ as my Grandma S. has done (and continues to do)............ for me, you know. <br /><br /><br />'Thinking of, and praying for, you & Wash both, i.e., not only during these hard, hard days, but also............ during these hard, hard *h.o.u.r.s.*, too. Rosannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17290435002631069643noreply@blogger.com